The Importance of People Placement at Weddings

On holiday this week, I binge-watched The Hills: New Beginnings with my lovely daughter-in-law, Kahla, who's a massive fan of that show.

​One of the episodes from 2019 featured a #renewalofweddingvows between stars Heidi and Spencer, who were celebrating their tenth wedding anniversary. 

I wanted to comment on the placement of the celebrant in this ceremony, which pretty much replicates a wedding but without the legals, even in the USA.

The couple had no attendants standing up with them during the ceremony - it was just them and the celebrant. This happens in a lot of weddings as well as other types of ceremonies, and is an extremely intimate setting.

So I found it a little strange that the celebrant stood between the couple for the entire ceremony. Why does he need to be so close to them when no one else is around? Things I noticed from this positioning: the celebrant is in every single photo taken of the couple at every angle, and doesn't move out of the way for the vows or the kiss at the end of the ceremony.

I did wonder if perhaps this placement was at the direction of the tv film crew, but I know that this also happens a lot in western ceremonies at the direction of the celebrants or officiants. It's also the placement you'll see in a lot of religious or church ceremonies officiated by ministers, priests etc. Food for thought!

​Placement and movement of people is one of the key elements of ceremony planning and for me, very important. I actually run through the ceremony in my mind like a little movie, which helps my planning process. Who is standing where, how people move in and out at different points for things like readings, ring presentation, rituals and so on.

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